learn how to french kiss
Among all aspects of sexual loving, kissing is not only the most common but maybe the most interesting and, for me, the most intimate, in the end. Now, French Kissing is even hotter! The closeness of kissing , the directness of mouths touching in the first place, is a statement of desirability and acceptance. But it can also be intimidating for those very reasons, hence why so many people with to learn how to French Kiss…
Let our lesson on how to French Kiss begin with a definition. In essence, French Kissing means having a person’s tongue slide between another’s lips, into his or her mouth, simply put. But that is the “scientific” look at French Kissing. The more sensual look at this considers it a bigass leap forward in intimacy. Anyone who deserves to have his or her tongue exploring inside another’s mouth is being pretty damned well accepted. And wanted!
I often think that oral sex, in all it’s forms, is especially hot because of the closeness of, well, the eyes and the facial aspects, altogether… nose… eyes… brain, in short. Lips are so personal and so one’s own. Sharing lips in any fashion seems such an intimately personal expression of sharing sensuality. When a couple kisses, a timer goes on. That timer is inevitably and irrevocably tied up with sex. A bad kisser can find his or herself out the door sooner than the initial invitation figured to last. A good kisser gets “the goods”.
If you’re looking to learn how to french kiss, I could think of no better practice time than French Kissing practice. We all kiss, that’s what we do. Sure, sometimes there happens that raw steaming torrid sex where force and submission, or where desirability simply cannot wait and we throw down and just fuck and suck. Most of the time, though, we relish “the kiss”. Lips meet, a wonderful moment, and the texture and moistness of an other’s own mouth becomes a an all-encompassing sensation. The utter naked exposure of a kiss is the original appeal. (She/he wants me!).
Lips press together, our sensations of smell and taste and touch merge, enveloping our sensibilities and telling us what to do next. Naturally, a good kisser will taste the other. A tongue protrudes and goes between lips of our kissing partner. The partner’s does as well. This, to me, was always an electric moment. Our tongues now caress one another, touching the other’s tongue, moving and exploring. The sensations around us often compress to this sensation, a momentary climax in it’s own right, the utter rawness of experiencing another in the most intimate way.
I have a fascination with teeth. There is something magic to me about having my tongue explore the teeth and under the front lips of a fine gal. I can kiss for a long time like this, exploring and being explored. Others love the lips and a deeper insertion of their tongue.
The sensation of having a woman symbolize sucking one’s cock by sucking on a tongue, ravenously, sends many beyond pleasure. Many women want the deepest feelings of a protruding tongue into their mouths. Many men want to deliver this, of course, but also want an aggressive tongue to inform them about what may be going on down below, the province of “the hands”, if I may. In the end, the mere presence of a tongue sends messages galore.
On the other hand, a no no of the first order is to leave a tongue inside, sitting there like a bump on a log, as it were. Move it around, explore, feel him or her, then glory in the intimacy and closeness of the act itself. Kissing is a wonderful and informative thing. French Kissing is the artist’s position, the lover’s best weapon in the great and wonderful of sexuality.
We use our tongues for a sensual method of arousal and sharing intimacy. As we taste and lick within another’s open and acceptingly hungry mouths, we are told to proceed. Sharing this mutual licking, and that is what it is, is pretty darn hot. Use your tongue to create a feeling; to help the other as well to respond as the tongues intertwine in this marvelously intimate dance. Information is passed between tongues. This is the best and most loving information we have access to.
Remember, if you want to learn how to french kiss, first find a willing partner and then practice, practice, practice!