how to have anal sex
Anal sex is a strange thing. There are as many reactions to it as is imaginable. Some women and men absolutely crave and adore it, yet others will want nothing to do with it. I think a lot of the problems related to it involve misunderstanding, however, and an incomplete understanding of the act itself. Some misconceptions involve hygiene, others simply discomfort. Those who enjoy it, however, do so with some most definite relish. I know I do, as well. This would seem to imply some understanding could be a good thing. Let’s try.
For the most part, no one disagrees that the ass can be an erotic area, a most definite erogenous zone. There are an abundance of nerves in this area, implying a ton of sensation, both pleasurable, thence, and the opposite. From having a partners hand there, suddenly discovering the heat it engenders, on both sides, it is not a long step to assuming it should be a good thoroughly sexual feature. Many women enjoy caressing a man’s ass during oral sex. It is somewhat natural, actually, to seek yet another place to excite their man. Vice versa for males. An old girlfriend of mine used to massage around my asshole, then stick her finger inside while sucking me. She would wait til she assumed I was close to cumming, and it was extremely hot the way her timing would increase the sensations and the sex. I would caress a ladies asshole, myself, many times reaching around during sex, or, especially during doggy style fucking. There were a couple of wonderful partners who I introduced to anal sex by slipping a wet and lubricated finger inside, deeper and deeper, while fucking her. They were appreciative later as we moved beyond a finger or thumb.
Hygienically, one needs to bear in mind the possibility of certain contamination between a ladies ass and her pussy. Coliform content of fecal matter are dangerously unhygienic and can cause infections of various types in a lady’s vagina. I never go from ass to pussy. While the reverse is utterly OK, in most important ways. Thus, I advocate, if one desires both, that a couple mind the cautions completely and, for truly safe sex, fuck the pussy before the ass, an order which would please just about everyone anyway. It is actually the same with fingers, as well. This is a cautionary statement, of course. Many times there is no problem. Yet, just the same, it pays to avoid risk. There’s more sex in safety, and for a longer and less-interrupted time.
Lubrication is the next issue and cannot be understated in importance. For a man’s fairly large cock to penetrate comfortably into such a tight area, there needs to be some lubrication. Needless to say, what applies to a lady’s vagina applies to her ass as well. There are abundant ways to accomplish this. There are wonderful-smelling sex oils for just this purpose, creams and lotions, all of which act as, frankly, aphrodisiacs anyway, rubbing them in while a nice sexy ass is raised for fucking. Applying it into the ass itself, as well as coating one’s cock, liberally, will insure a smooth and necessary entry into this under rated sexual orifice. Once it has begun, the cock peeks inside, moving slightly, getting a bit deeper, the sensations for both can be wildly electric. Just encountering the accommodating adjustments in the musculature of the ass itself, as a woman releases the tightness and allows one inside is beyond description. There is a sense of violation for a woman which is highly erotic to both parties, especially when first trying this. Visions of being fucked in the ass, or fucking a lady there, are incredibly numerous fantasies among us all. As well as a sense of discovery at such a thing is not only possible but hot as hell. Some ass-licking, as in the rimming statements included here, also aid the lubrication process hugely. There are men and women to whom this is nearly a climatic experience in its own right.
Sexuality can include a good and fine ass fucking, complete with orgasms from both. Filling an ass with cum is a fantastic experience for both. Anal Sex not only provides a new and different experiment for the curious, but it can be an incredible enhancement to sensations for both. The ass is, to my way of thinking, a completely underrated experience. It is not some weird domination exercise at all, far from it when accomplished with real lust and cooperation. It is as hot as any sexual act can possibly be.