Sex Chat Rooms
Sex chat rooms are simply web pages with a built-in internet application that allows visitors to send out messages to each other, in real time. All current users of a chat room can see what any other user is typing in the public area. However, almost all chat rooms also allow you some form of private messaging as well. In that respect, chat rooms have turned into a meeting point for people looking for “cyber sex”.
Where are such conversations found? What is a sex chat room? I often go to Yahoo Messenger on my own accord for cybersex. AOL has some interesting and very specific rooms for potential cyber lovers as well as MSN and, actually, quite a few others which come up in conversations all the time.
Why a sex chat room? Well, in these, one knows the other is, or should be, looking for the same thing. Rooms with the titles “Women Being Used By The Room” or “Married Looking For Sex” don’t leave a lot to the imagination. Yahoo has scaled down what used to be incredibly naughty room names in the face of lawsuits stemming from the involvement of under aged kids. This, by the way, is yet another reason for the wary cybersex seeker to chat a bit off the bat. You do not want an irate parent reporting your ass to your local authorities. At least, I don’t. By chatting just a bit, one can discern a maturity level without too much confusion.
There are some rules for sex chat rooms, more along the subject of Manners than really anything else. Remember as well that many women with sexy screen names get hit on upon entry. Don’t be “buzzing” them. Be patient and look around. Ditto that for guys or gals who have cams. Everyone wants to see, right away… it is the way of the world.
Another thing to remember is that one encounters innumerable spamming operations and “bots”, automatic sales pitches for webcam sites. These are annoying and camouflaged, so be on your guard. If you get a message, either in the room or in private, about a girl who is just about to take her clothes off and is only waiting for you… be wary. As a rule, any link provided to you on a chat room that goes outside the chat room, is most likely spam. With time, you learn to ignore them.
Men must remember that women still want to be seduced a bit, with conversation and something approaching interesting angles of approach being the primary goals. Women are predictably better in this, although some get right to the point. Online or cybersex can be actually incredibly erotic.
Naturally, one needs imagination and a sense of timing to be truly successful. There are no closely held secrets to any of this, in the end. The same things that get one laid in real life apply in chatting. Coming right out and saying “Fuck me, baby,” or, “I want you to suck my hard long cock”, are occasionally seen but are hardly a formula for success. At least in my observations. It happens, for sure. For me, however, I like the chase and the capture scenario’s.
Seduction is erotic in its own right, the lowering of boundaries and the continual lessening of restraint until each partner knows positively they have what they want in front of them. At that time, asking for the other to take things off, asking what they are doing with heir hands, their cocks or pussies, matters greatly and becomes part of the erotic sex talk. The heat at this time, at the occurrences of sexual heat and the exchanges of lust, given freely and wantonly, is amazingly realistic and full of want, desire and need.
One senses a reciprocal regard during the chat. One takes chances on the direction, as ion mentioning what they might be wearing, or how they are suddenly getting warmer. An invitation to lose some clothing? Sexual banter is good, other things may not be. While chatting, for the easily-distracted, it pays to mention sex along the way, even when discussing weather and sports. I for one easily get distracted, and have often found myself losing interest when finishing a discussion of disciplining children. Opinions can kill….. Politics and religion? stay as far away from these as you can. Nobody fucked me because I had a I political view of space travel.
As it advances, the conversation should take a decidedly sexual turn, in the end. There have been times when a lot of banter about unrelated things made the journey more rewarding, but they are not numerous, in my experience. I like knowing the talk is going in a sexual direction. I love suddenly realizing she wants me to say more, to be direct about sex and what she can do for me. To have me tell her my cock is hard and she is responsible for it growing and getting even harder. She likes it as well, count on it. At this point, almost everything is possible… ass fucking, sucking, eating a pussy, and the better description one can give, (”Licking along the soft insides of your thighs, I find the bud I need to taste between them, finally. I taste you there, your legs move around my head”.etc, etc) the more fun one will have.
In the end, just like real life, expect hot sex. “Fuck me harder”, “Stick your cock all the way down my throat, faster”, “As I fuck your mouth, I grab your head between my hands, forcing it further inside you”, “my pussy is so wet as your hard cock goes deeper, fuck me harder”…. these are lovely words when appropriate to the moment. If you have been there, oh please, enjoy them deeply. If you have not, you may expect a pure experience when you finally do. The absolute erotic nature of those moments is electric, I assure you.