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March 31, 2006

Online Chatting: Erotic or Sexy?

Filed under: Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 1:16 pm

LOL, sad ass title, I realize. Hey, I like funny.

I discovered the internet all of 3 years or so ago. So I feel relatively new, particularly when faced by my webmistress partner and her ilk, and justifiably so. I have wandered around, fascinated, however, into many and various realms, online, from the lives of trees to the lives of porn people. News always fascinates me. One major discovery I made was how free-flowing and entertaining chatting can be. Chatting online and message boards have become virtual gathering places for many friends of mine. I have met folks online with whom I have close relationships and have met any number of them in person. For a fairly social person such as myself, it has been almost illegal how much fun I have had with it all. There is something about the candor the internet allows that is highly-charged: there is the potential, online, to be more honest, as compared to less. Granted, the reverse is true, but that is for game players and losers, IMO. The opportunity to be straightforward allows an intimacy almost hard to describe. We find alot out about ourselves as we ponder opinions contrary to our own, about what, for example, we REALLY know about certain matters. If one can endure some embarrassment and knows how to apologize, now and then, it is a huge part of surviving and growing with this computer. Manners are sexy. Respect is too.
Naturally, in Arenaxxx.com, we have tried to stick with the “sexy”. It is the purpose here to try and establish an informed and pleasant enough site to allow us to pursue those things that we think are sexual and arousing. The primary purpose, actually. In that light, I want to talk about sexy chatting. Since I have taken up space with this post, I will continue tomorrow………… I plan on entering 4-5 posts talking about this subject. I will descrbe some conversations I have had and produce some examples of the things I have found most exciting and, to me, incredubly erotic. It should be hot.

March 28, 2006

Slave Much? Part 2

Filed under: Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 11:23 pm

We have a lively conversation going on Annette’s personal blog, www.Unshroud.com. She took some of this theme and broached it there as well, speculating her own self on the allure of the “sexual slave” motif. A respondent claims we are both utterly off base. That, in the real BDSM world, sex is the less important theme and that control and submission are, in the end, all. He makes some interesting comments. His statement that it is the “melding of purpose”, the mixing amidst the two needs, forms a new, formerly chaotic blend and mixture of desires, into something else. Slave and Master lose identities and something forms as a result. It is intriguing as hell, but a bit different I think, from what I am interested in. I believe they both share one important thing: rebellion against conventional ideas of sex. For one, I am dubious about the Master losing himself. Control seems so important. There is so much I donlt know about it, actually, I should stick with blowjobs and fucking nice ladies. It’s alot of work too!
For me, the sex is more real. While his situation of role-playing and the submission/domimance fantasy might work for him, and for others, for me, I’m afraid it is more simple. I like the physical and mental aspects of real foreplay. We all want to be wanted. Some of us chafe at the normal unions and roles. I think this motivates the “slut” fantasy greatly. For me, a woman discovering a desire for slutty behavior, for being used by one or more men, or women, is seeing a breakthrough of an restrictive expectation. The “Inner Slut” of a woman is talked about frequently. Is it real? I believe it is. Situations abound where women find their innermost fantasies utterly served by worshipping a cock for an entire afternoon. Being on the floor at a man’s desk, sucking him off like a real slut. Drinking, or wearing his cum. Asking what he wants, if there is anything else she can do for him. These are slut fantasies and they are empowering, oddly, to both parties. There is something more or less natural in them, even primeval. You know, cave man hit woman. Him marry. LOL.
In this sense, the slave is very similar. The slave, in this sense, is utter submission to what a man wants. Willingly and totally. What comes after this seems to be the point of departure there. For me, the stuff at this juncure is very sufficient for me. God knows, there is an awful lot of intersting sex that can be had at this point. As yet, and maybe it is my naivete about such matters, going into further realms of submission are moot. They might be incredible. I will probably never find out.

March 25, 2006

Slave Much? Part 1 of 2

Filed under: Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 1:56 pm

Maybe I can get to the point where I am like the Eddie Murphy role of Velvet Jones in ‘Saturday Night Live’ where he pimps his hot new book “How To Be A Ho”…… ” Ladies, you can do this in the comfort of you own bed!” I imagine thousands of gals signing up, flocking to my website with urges aplenty, waiting for assignments. I rake in the cash and get to have my own fun for free………..all from the comfort of Their Beds! Because of my intimate position in their lives, we recline, following the hottest sex, and they tell me thier innermost fantasies. I learn more than the average Sex God. Um, OK, sure.
Or, more to the point, maybe I can find out more about sexuality in real ways. What the hell. Discovering “what women want” will always be a refreshing, challenging and seemingly always at least partly painful process. There is pain in growth, otherwise no incentive. There is sloppy discomfort in things like “letting go” of someone who feels a need to try something new, or who is attracted by the green grass of the “next exciting thing”. There is always pain in growing wiser. And you can always get wiser. We possess such vague and simple preconceptions about sexuality at the start. There are no educators outside the bodies and minds of our mates. We discover the fantasies alive in the world by accident, often…..it sets us on fire for a while and then we feel the need to close the windows to these possibilities, owing to guilt or a sense of inadequacy or just opwing to a need for change, summoined up from way deep inside us. We stumble along.
Sexual fantasies span a massive and wide range. The more prominent ones we encounter I guess, are the ones where we meet someone and develop a relationship. This would be the ‘love and marriage’ fantasy, a virtual archetype that just floods us with information from the time we are born. Next, we encounter real sex and here the action begins. Oral sex fantasies, fantasies inviolving various part of the body, from toes to asses to mouths, we encounter them and they begin fascinating us. Domination fantasies are among the more intriguing, currently, to me. I think it is my maleness that does not even allow me to consider being a slave to someone. I mean, there are males for whom this works, cuckold fantasies (which, in truth might be some others as well), fantaises of being dominated by a strong and black-suited woman. These are cool, just not my thing, really. What fascinates me more than any right now are those fantasies so many women seem to have, of domination by a father figure, an older or maybe simply a a stronger, male. Or just being dominated by the nearest and best thing. If this seems crude and random as a concept, forgive me. I am attempting to understand something myself and am, in a way, asking for feedback to get there with, if nothing else.
In terms of sheer erotic value, the slave fantasy has alot going for it. Obviously, it serves both parties and is a “gateway fantasy” to a huge range of possibilities, anal, oral, bound and gagged, or even, in some cases (and I have been here) acting out in reality the demands of a dominant one. Rape fantasies may even be a part of these, something a surprising number of ladies speculate on, late at night. But the fantasy of utter compliance and being dominated has become popular. It may just be that it is an internet phenomenom, there is always that chance. Lord knows, I spend enough time on the net any more and I may heve encountered a biased field of horny and needy people. (And, to be honest, there is obviously no reason to exclude myself from this category, lol.) In chats with women, this fantasy rears its head deep into an erotic discourse and seems almost inevitable. Naturally, some women pursue it avidly, while others enjoy moving on to a more comfortable fucking. But then there comes a time when a foray into more taboo realms appeals to most: mulitple partners using a gal, oral fascinations (mouth-fucking, gagging, swallowing cum, wearing it), cock worshipping on it’s own, an afternoon of just sucking a cock or two and, in general getting well-used. Thoroughly and utterly used. This tiptoes around issues of cruelty and rape fantasies and comprises some fairly hot fantasy sex. The notion the internet provides is the proximity to the actual availability of fantasy fulfillment and provides immediate satisfaction for exploring all this. It even has the ultimately sexy possibility of it actually happening, a hair-raising and moisture producing temptation. End Part 1

March 22, 2006

Oral Sex

Filed under: Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 4:35 pm

OK, what is it about oral sex that is so damned sexy? Why do I have this fetish? Is it because I think so much about sex and get so little?? LOL. I mean, well, not as much as I want? I admit, oral sex occupies a substantial sector of my sexual thinking. I do indeed adore unzipping and freeing the magic wand I possess for sex. I love the feel of another’s hand and, especially, her lips. The gentle warmth of a mouth sends me to places unheard of. Licking, worshipping, watching a lady who seems taken by this flesh of mine makes me want to cum then and there, it is so damned hot.
I look for answers from my own perspective. There is almost as much to enjoy by finding oneself inside the smooth, soft thighs of a woman, kissing one’s way moundward. The musky scent and the intake of breath when one finds a magical region, or spot on another’s gential area. The increasing moistness of her. Licking, moving one’s hands and fingers over and over a chosen hot spot on a lady. Probing her very hole, using a finger or two while the mouth and tongue operate gently between this fortunate vixen’s upper thighs. She allows me this intimacy, exposes an extreme and desired vulnerability while I have my way in her most precious and protected area. I explore and she lets me. I play and she becomes breathless. It is a heightened awareness of one’s own senses, especially for this hot lady now enjoying my touch. She feels her pussy in perhaps a new way as this guy plays and explores down there.
Obviously something good just happened. I watch as a lady smiles up at me, sitting between my legs by my sofa, her knees on my plush carpeting as the fire roars on this cold Winter day. I reach down and cup her breast, holding, then squeezing slightly. She does love this, I can tell by the increased and more grateful attention she now pays to my cock. Her mouth encircles, the swallows me, my cock disappears down her throat as she sucks at me, harder now. She forces my hard cock as far down her throat as she can, opening wider and accomodating all thet she can hold, to the limit. She seems very taken with this blunt dick invading her like this. Most women seem very taken by this. They may be made for it, if I may say, for arousing a man to perform his fucking role. Maybe that’s all it is, just arousal and some play. Mybe women get off on sucking cocks, I actually happen to think so. I have had women cum, and more than once, while sucking my cock. Certainly when I came, I have had them do it as well, exploding in unison, cum everywhere, a mess of wonderful intensity and proportions.
I often believe the “new paradigm” of sex……..condoms as necessary, STD concerns, etc, have changed things somewhat so that the act of fucking, as absolutely wonderful as it is, can be a deferred goal while one finds and explores these many and varied other avenues to satisfaction, less risky yet still satisfying as all hell. Then you create monsters like me, lol. What can I say? Suck me, Hon.

Baseball and Sex, MILF Style

Filed under: Sex Stories — Lee @ 12:04 pm

A female friend of mine rocked my world with this tale of naughtiness and public sex. Not sure I could do this, lol, but, well, she did.
A baseball fan, she can be seen at games sometimes on her own. She literally likes ball that well. She played alot of softball herself and the fact that she was once married to a professional balplayer obviously has alot to do with it. They did not last, with him gone for great lengths of time during the season and she developing her own career, at which she is actullaly very good, a photographer. She does spreads for men’s magazines, sometimes and also does a few things for some lady rags, which puts her “in touch” with some hot men. LOL, men who like her………..alot. She enjoys spilling these tales for me over beers and, sometimes, at my place or hers in more intimate surrounding, usually naked.
Well, she went to a local college game on a warm Spring day, enjoying the sun and some suds, watching the very good local team. Sitting next to her were some college guys, one of which, she admitted, she cast glances at during the game and surely enjoyed talking with. As they spoke, she could sense a definite interest emanating form the guy and she was equally attracted. About the 5th inning, she had had a few brews and was feeling just a little “looser”, as she put it. She was, by this time, wondering how she could “do” this hot young stud. Now, our subject here is gorgeous, great shape, brunette, nice breasts which she is not afraid to show off a bit and a lady who just emantes sexuality.
She had leaned over and pressed her breast onto his arm as they spoke. The guy had most certainly noticed the growing intimacy and he was decidedly most interested, having to “rearrange” his jeans, once, to our girl’s extreme excitement. As they spoke baseball, she whispered to him: “Would you like to see my car, or maybe take a trip downstairs?”
He grunted his approval at the idea. She left first, telling him to look for her in the parking lot at a certain spot. The wooded parking lot had lots of nice shade and was fairly isolated and a thought hit her, she said, as she walked. She mentioned she felt just as sexy as hell, had this nice young stud for fun coming in seconds to meet her and she felt her pussy just soaking wet with anticipation. It was a delicious moment. She leaned up against her car and raised her small mini skirt, removing her panties. She felt so exposed like that, stripping in public with the odd car driving by. The delicious riskiness of public sex suddenly made her nearly cum, right there. She was so fucking hot, she said. She could see her guy approaching.
As he turned by the car and saw her, with her panties on the ground and her skirt up, exposing and playing with herself, he stopped. He took it in, drinking in the uincredible heat of this moment. As he approached her, he unzipped his pants and pulled out his cock for her to see, raging hard, nice and long and warm. She got to her knees right there, raising her skirt and diddling herself right then and there and taking this nice mouhtfull of man pleasure right inside her hot lips. She felt so incredibly slutty, it was among her hottest ever experiences already. She could not help but moan as her guy put his hands in her hair, entwining his fingers, there, and began holding her head tighter as he fucked her hot and hungry mouth, long full strokes, all the way out, with this popping sound as her suction was so intense as it came out, then forcing it back inside, roughly. Cars passed by as they stuck together like this, her mouth a receptacle for this gorgeously tasty cock. She came repeatedly as she was sucking, almost, no totally, out of control, sucking off this collge kid in a parking lot.
She found herself wanting others to watch as he used her so roughly, her sluttiness was at a peak. Finally, he came, his large cock just rammed down inside her throat, choking her but sliding deeply in, making her gulp hard and swallow fast to keep herself wrapped around this handsome dick. As his cum spurted insanely, pounding her throat and mouth, she came again and again, gushing cum herself , knowing they would leave a puddle of cum to show where they had sucked and cum together. She was so fucking hot she could not stand it. Sucking a strange youg guy……..so sinful, so slutty. She told me this as we were driving together to yet another ball game. She laughed as she told the story, amazed at her brazenness in public like that, especially at the university she had graudated from. Naturally, she smiled at me and moved her hand over, right on top of my hard and most ready cock. “Guess what I want!” she smiled.

March 20, 2006

Dogging Uncovered - HIS Review

Filed under: Adult Website Reviews — Lee @ 10:42 pm

Whoa. Splendid stuff in Dogging Uncovered.

Simply outrageous and hot. Allow me to present my opinion of Carmen, the German dogging lover. So far, on this site, the “talent” has been real,
enthusiastic, sexy, nice to look at and definitely willing. The blowjobs, which, as mentioned, are our personal favorite foreplay, and most often more, aspects, are casual, intense and long-lasting.

Carmen is disappointed, literally, to find no one available at the first car park. She preens for the camera and our cheeky “host”, and delights our sensitivities with posing and showing us so much more of herself. That she is hot to “dog” and her willingness not even close to in question. Here, I believe, lies the allure of this wonderfully sexy and naughty site. Taken, finally, to a rather vacant car park across town, Carmen is delighted to encounter a love parker/driver.

Urged on by our impish cameraman friend, she asks if she could deliver a blow job to a surprised yet willing black man. As she bends into her work, there is nothing but pure lust shown by our gorgeous German subject, and avid dogger who loves cock sucking and who really proves it.

Carmen obviously knows her cock. She takes him inside her mouth at once, sounding incredibly pleased, and worships this lucky guy’s cock like a whore in heat. Back and forth, lots of time taken licking it up and down, making love to this gent, on her knees and happy to be there, Carmen is obviously willing and slutty, most content with her mouth just filled with cock.

The allure of sluttiness, of being taken in some casual and cheap fashion, in short, being an absolute shameless slut is what comes across thickest on these videos. Their passion is our passion, as it were. The delight of a woman sucking a nice hard cock, which Carmen certainly shows, tells us about her and
what it is she desires most. Sure, there is control there, from the female perspective. She spends copious amounts of time, looking upwards into the eyes and face of her dogger, sucking him deeper and swallowing him whole while it seems her very insides are being challenged to find something better.

Because the weather is raw, they move to the guy’s car and Carmen continues sucking him, jerking it and then diving in again for cum. As he is ready, the cameraman asks Carmen to turn and the man cum on her ass. A compliant and ecstatic Carmen then feels the cum, warm and plentiful gush onto her hot looking ass. Her smile is nearly worth watching for it’s own delightful contentment. When asked on camera if she enjoyed it and wanted to come back, Carmen relied” Oh God, yes.”

Big smile. Here too! Some girls sure like sucking strangers…

March 18, 2006

Home Invasion…I Get It

Filed under: Sex Stories, Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 12:22 am

I was sitting at home, a day off, watching TV and I get a call from an old girlfriend. We gab, I mention how it is nice to hear from her and am glad she is back in town again. We had a torrid affair a few years back and she moved away, interrupting it. We had sort of stayed in touch, yet had not really kept up recently. Cards, a few emails, and that was it. When she mentioned she had a friend with her and was in the neighborhood, I asked her to please come by, by all means. She said she would be over within an hour.
I heard the knock on the door and answered and was taken by how her new hair style and what seemed almost to be a ‘new body type” had taken her over. She seemed so much tighter and buffed, it was remarkable. In short, just looking at her there, with her scooped neckline, it was remarkably hot. I fought a definite discomfoprt as I found myself getting hard, just checking her out. I must add here, her friend was just as fine, with actually bigger boobs. I invited them in and made drinks for all.
We sat in my living room, Dana next to me and her friend, Mickey, on my other side. We swapped some fairly funny tales, having some serious laughs about stuff we had done and people we had known. The talk turned to romance and reltaionships and we both admitted to a few successes and failures. (I got to brag about my daughter, which they both drank up, it seemed. We concluded I was a proud and biased judge of this one.)
Mickey had been giving me these effusive smiles. As we spoke she, of all people, began plying her hand on my body, putting her hand on my shoulder, rubbing my neck now and then, finally, placing her hand on my thigh. Naturally, I had not stopped her, it had been pleasant and comfortable, somehow, as if she were being introduced to me the way her friend, Dana, had. This time, she left it there and its heat was getting serious beneath my jeans.
Dana noticed. I suspect she had mentioned our relationship from the past and how hot we had been for each other. Dana leaned in and got closer to me as well. This was beginning to look like a plan.
As I sat, Dana got close enough, as we talked, to rest the point of her breast on my upper arm. She pressed it into me, just as her friend was beginning to knead my leg more, feeling me up, it seemed and arousing the hell out of me. Finally, I turned to Dana and looked at her directly. “Take your top off for me, Honey.” I said. “I want to see my favorite tits again.”
Dana laughed and did just that, removing it in a rush. As she did, so did Mickey, leaving me breathlessly in charge of two topless amazing foxes, with nowhere to go but straight ahead. I felt Mickey’s hand beginning top unbuckle my belt as Dana and I kissed. As our tongues intertwined, deliciously, and the familiar senses and smells of her body and sex returned to me, I could fell my cock being rleased, into the air and into a soft hand, then what felt suspiciously like lips. Yes, I was being sucked by Mickey, bless her. I felt my entire cock being engulfed by hungry lips, some serious suction being applied and my cock began dancing, as hard as a lead pipe. As she plied me with this wonderful blow job, with all the licking and caressing, she worshipped my cock, it seemed, lovingly.
Dana drew away from me, our lips separated and she smiled at me. “Lee, sit back. I want to make you feel wonderful. Let us make you cum.” With that said, she slipped onto the floor with her friend. She smiled up at me as Mickey held my cock in her hand, then at Mickey who was offering it to her, and she suddenly went down on me, taking all of my cock in a breathtaking huge suck. I could feel her throat and see her cheeks bulge as she greedily took all of me deep inside her hot mouth.
They took turns and it was very soon I felt myself ready to explode. I mentioned this and Mickey then took my cock and held it just inside her lips as they both stroked me. I gushed cum in torrents, I was so fucking hot, just spurting hard and fast. Mickey gulped away, swallowing at first, then she held my cock and milked it for me, sucking in small spurts, getting more of my oozing cum. When I finally finsihed cumming, Mickey turned and kissed Dana, obviously to share her wealth. I could see the transfer of cum into Dana’s mouth and they seemed to be sucking one anothers’ mouths as ths went on, another hotter than hell event.
I heard them talking. Mickey looked at me, then at Dana, smiled and said, “God, Dana, you were right. His cum tastes fantastic.” They laughed. I had been part of a pot, after all. Oh, well, hard to find a more willing “victim” I am sure.

March 17, 2006

Bukakke Barn

Filed under: Adult Website Reviews, Sex and Life and Life and Sex — Lee @ 10:42 pm

I must say, first, I saw no barns. No cows or pigs nor even a tractor. However, I did see some incredible sex. This is one of the hottest sites I have noticed online, altho, as I will mention, it has a navigation problem which takes some getting used to.
This is a bukakke site, first and foremost. “Bukakke” as most realize, is the process of women collecting the erupting cum upon their faces and bodies, being put there by men who the lady in question, typically, has serviced, orally, usually, but also in any number of other ways. This series I saw, featured a lady who sure enjoyed sucking cocks. I mean, she stayed with the oral sex in this very long video, getting pounded, pounding her own lips and mouth on her men, all of whom had a hefty deposit for her, in time, which absolutely coated her face and upper chest. That she enjoyed the sex is not in question at all. It is so obvious that this woman is an absolute connossieur of sucking dicks and eating cum. She was grateful for the dicks, smiling and looking up, mainting her hold on at least one other cock when sucking and waiting patiently for the finale, getting super creamed, the stuff dripping off her chin, while positioning herself for more. Wow.
This was as hot as it gets. I ever so highly recommend the erotic qualities of this site. The only glith is in the finding of the thing. One has some getting used tio when entering here, necessitating some fiddling around in the process of locating sites directly involving the action one requires. Otherwise, the site is magnificently photographed and filmed. The action is just as hot as I describe, no if’s and’s or but’s. Simply astoundingly 100% on the Peter Meter..