Oral Sex
OK, what is it about oral sex that is so damned sexy? Why do I have this fetish? Is it because I think so much about sex and get so little?? LOL. I mean, well, not as much as I want? I admit, oral sex occupies a substantial sector of my sexual thinking. I do indeed adore unzipping and freeing the magic wand I possess for sex. I love the feel of another’s hand and, especially, her lips. The gentle warmth of a mouth sends me to places unheard of. Licking, worshipping, watching a lady who seems taken by this flesh of mine makes me want to cum then and there, it is so damned hot.
I look for answers from my own perspective. There is almost as much to enjoy by finding oneself inside the smooth, soft thighs of a woman, kissing one’s way moundward. The musky scent and the intake of breath when one finds a magical region, or spot on another’s gential area. The increasing moistness of her. Licking, moving one’s hands and fingers over and over a chosen hot spot on a lady. Probing her very hole, using a finger or two while the mouth and tongue operate gently between this fortunate vixen’s upper thighs. She allows me this intimacy, exposes an extreme and desired vulnerability while I have my way in her most precious and protected area. I explore and she lets me. I play and she becomes breathless. It is a heightened awareness of one’s own senses, especially for this hot lady now enjoying my touch. She feels her pussy in perhaps a new way as this guy plays and explores down there.
Obviously something good just happened. I watch as a lady smiles up at me, sitting between my legs by my sofa, her knees on my plush carpeting as the fire roars on this cold Winter day. I reach down and cup her breast, holding, then squeezing slightly. She does love this, I can tell by the increased and more grateful attention she now pays to my cock. Her mouth encircles, the swallows me, my cock disappears down her throat as she sucks at me, harder now. She forces my hard cock as far down her throat as she can, opening wider and accomodating all thet she can hold, to the limit. She seems very taken with this blunt dick invading her like this. Most women seem very taken by this. They may be made for it, if I may say, for arousing a man to perform his fucking role. Maybe that’s all it is, just arousal and some play. Mybe women get off on sucking cocks, I actually happen to think so. I have had women cum, and more than once, while sucking my cock. Certainly when I came, I have had them do it as well, exploding in unison, cum everywhere, a mess of wonderful intensity and proportions.
I often believe the “new paradigm” of sex……..condoms as necessary, STD concerns, etc, have changed things somewhat so that the act of fucking, as absolutely wonderful as it is, can be a deferred goal while one finds and explores these many and varied other avenues to satisfaction, less risky yet still satisfying as all hell. Then you create monsters like me, lol. What can I say? Suck me, Hon.
March 23rd, 2006 at 2:11 am
Back at ya with a philosophical reply.
For any readers out there who might now know (not you, dear, lol), I happen to be one of those ladies with bad oral cravings. Anyone wishing to learn more of this, umm, problem of mine, is welcome to visit Unshroud - My Blog.
Firstly, let me say that performing oral sex is a huge attraction and can in fact get me to cum. Almost always, actually. However, not without some manual stimulation.
So, what’s so hot about it? For one thing, oral stimulation. I have come to discover that my own mouth is an erogenous zone; that even sucking on my own fingers can be immensely pleasurable; that applying pressure on my lips feels good, as well as inside my mouth and even quite deep inside. So, you have that physical aspect.
Undoubtedly, there’s the mental aspect as well. A bit more complicated to analyze that one, actually. Intimacy, sure, for one thing. Honestly, I find it difficult to find glory holes that much of an attraction for that reason. I’m not saying I need to know the guy intimately before the act to find it sexy (lol and you of all people know exactly how many strange guys I really have tried in real life ;)). What I’m saying that the eye contact, the moaning, the jointness of the act is very intimate and thus very appealing.
There are also control issues here, though this is more complext. Sucking a guy off gives me control… the ability to tease and then please, so to speak. Then again, there is the fun part of driving a guy so wild, that he takes over…
Last, but probably not least, there’s the sluttiness element. As women, we’re brought up to be respectable. “Normal” sex, as in intercourse, is legitimate, with your one and only of course. But oral sex? hey, that’s totally “bad girl”, isn’t it? it’s too much of pure slutty fun in a way, something you weren’t supposed to do. I’m not talking about my own personal bringing up btw, just messages in general that still exist, that still teach women that they are either madonnas or whores, and well, sometimes life as a madonna can get way too boring and frustrating.
March 23rd, 2006 at 9:21 am
My, how utterly unreal that we would hook up! LOL. Thanks, Babe, gorgeous reply.